Art
by Nepali Women who had been trafficked
Downtrodden by oppressive village social structures,
Nepali girls and women are all too ready to believe the traffickers'
false promises. Instead of having better lives as domestics or
factory workers, almost all of the women find themselves locked
in brothels.
Myrna was invited by five Kathmandu shelters to
draw with women and girls. Most were illiterate and had never been
to school. She was astonished to see the results of the art sessions.
The women were extremely proud of their work and delighted in their
sense of accomplishment. The participants also wanted Myrna to
exhibit the drawings. They explained that they had found a voice
through drawing.
The
following images are some of the drawings by these women.
Tara explained to Myrna: "In
this picture, a man is showing a woman his home. He says he wants
to marry her but he really plans to take her to a brothel in India.
In my casse I was sent away from my home because I had not given
birth to a son. I took my husband to court for support, but lost
the case. I have three daughters, ages 5, 9, and 11. I came to
Nav Jyoti, a training center. I look
forward to going home and telling women in my village about the
rights of children and about justice."

Bina was facing a desperate domestic
situation when she was tricked into sex slavery in India. She told
Myrna:"I
was told I had to marry a man older than my father. I did not like
that and left the village with a lady who promised me a job doing
domestic work. This job was so bad I ran away when the woman of
the house died. The lady who took me to the city found me and offered
me a better job. I was sent to a brothel in India. While I was
working in the brothel and crying, a customer took pity on me and
gave me money to return to Kathmandu." She entered a shelter
for women with HIV.
Kumi told Myrna about her drawing: "The parents
are depressed because a broker took their child away from them.
It shows a place where girls are taken and given cruel treatment.
Letters are drawn on the right side of the picture because now
the girl is learning to read." This 20-year-old woman explained
that she had no chance to go to school. She wants to study but
she thinks she is too old. She loves the experience of learning
to read. In 1996, Kuml was brought back to Nepal from India, where
she was a held captive in a brothel. She immediately returned home,
but was ostracized by her village. She then went to ABC Nepal,
an NGO that shelters former sex slaves. ABC Nepal is working to
educate the village, in the hope that they will take herback.
Goma explained her drawing: "One day a lady
from the brothel network came to the village offering jobs in a
carpet factory. My parents sent me with the woman. My parents were
given the first month's wages. I was there a month, working very
long hours doing hard work. The same lady came back and offered
to get me a better job. I was then sold into a brothel in Bombay.
As soon as I got there I knew what it was. Everyone cried. The
owner was a lady. I was there three years before the Indian government
raided the place and sent the girls back home to Nepal."
Kamala explained
that her drawing is a message about society and family: "A
ten-year-old child is shown in this picture; she is required to
marry a man of 35 to 40. The square around the figure
represents the nation of Nepal, the people of the village, and
their customs and traditions. The girl is always restricted and
kept inside, deprived of everything. From the day of birth, family
and society deprive the girl child. She marries and life is still
bad."
Before her leadership
training at a shelter, Kamala said that she felt powerless. But
now she hopes to organize women in the village and further community
development.
The following are the NGOs which help abused and
trafficked women in Nepal:
- ABC Nepal, which shelters victims
of domestic abuse and sex trafficking. Contact Durga Ghimire.
- Maiti
Nepal, which shelters women and girls returned from brothels
in India Contact Anuradha Koirala.
- Karuna Bhawan, which shelters
women surrering from AIDS. Contact Sister Deepa.
- Nava Jyoti,
which includes a leadership training program. Contact Sister
Teresa.
- The Women's Foundation, which shelters women with
children. Contact Tara Upreti.
- Association of Dalit Women, an
NGO that helps low-caste women. Contact Bishnu Maya Pariyar.
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